I’m listening to my kids in the kitchen with their grandparents. They’re doing a chestnut experiment. We collected loads, while out on walks. I can hear such varied vocabulary: peel, shell, sharp, brains. And they’re using a timer, to see how long they boil the chestnuts for, 2 mins – “poke,” 4 mins – “still too hard,” 6 mins – “perfect!” My kids love experiments you can eat! And they’ve been learning new words at the same time.

We have also put chestnuts into dump trucks and trains, eaten them at tea parties, and thrown them. Very multipurpose.

I’m using this Halloween craft from Made by Joel, tomorrow with a 6 year old client. We’ll be practising giving each other instructions – “colour the pumpkin with the orange pen” and “cut the bat with the small scissors.” Then we’ll use the finger puppets to act out sentences: “the ghost is scaring the cat!”

Let me know if you have any favourite seasonal craft activities for young children, I’m always on the lookout.

My partner has taken the kids out for a walk, so I have time to sit down and write this blog post. I’m reflecting on time. What do I want to use my time for? How can I use my time in a way that serves my purpose?

I haven’t written anything here on the blog for 4 months. I enjoy using writing as a tool for reflection, and ‘blog regularly’ features on my Goals for 2017 list. I meant to write earlier in the year about my intentions for my practice in 2017, but I didn’t make the time. I have two children, the youngest just 6 months old: quiet time to concentrate is rare. But I don’t want to think about time with a scarcity mindset, and I don’t want to live my life that way, rushing from one thing to another, frantically trying to do everything. That’s not connecting with my power.

I’m gradually returning to work, soon I’ll be working one day a week. I choose to schedule my day so that I have a long lunch break, which gives me time to go home and feed the baby. I can fit in 6 children for therapy. Writing this, I realise even my language implies scarcity: ‘fit in’ – squeeze. I want to try flipping this into a positive. How about: I get to help make a positive change in the life of 6 children and their families, what a privilege.

I read an interesting book over the holidays, which fed directly into my intentions for my work this year. Movement Matters by Katy Bowman really intrigued me. I feel like I need to read it through several times, as there is so much in there to think about. After reading it twice, I’m determined to stop asking the children (my clients and my own!) to sit down. I work with pre-schoolers, they have a whole lifetime ahead of them sitting down. All those hours, days, weeks – doing something their bodies didn’t evolve doing. And something some of my little clients find so tricky! So from now on in my sessions we’ll squat, and crawl and jump while we do therapy. And if we’re concentrating while lying on the floor, well that’s okay.

Secondly, I need to get out more. Humans are nature, yet today we perceive ourselves as separate from it. I’ve been reading about Forest School (lots of lovely child-led principles) and thinking about how to incorporate the ideas into my work. There is a huge, beautiful garden where I work, and I’m going to use it more. I bought this book about things to make or do with sticks and this one with ideas for outside activities, and I’m going to have a go. Spending time outside, being part of nature while I work and support children – now that’s serves my purpose.

I’ve found it challenging to get back into work mode after the winter break. It’s dark when I leave the house and dark when I get home.

Here are three things that have inspired me:

• Observing the progress my clients are making. I’ve reminded myself to slow down and notice the changes in each client. One is now able to produce s clusters, another can make a choice between two options, and a third has started asking questions. Their exciting progress keeps me motivated.
• Doing a little CPD at a time that suits me, sitting at my own desk. I watched this Hanen eSeminar: Choosing Initial Vocabulary Targets for Children Who Are Late Talkers, which deserves a blog post of it’s own. It made me think about which of my children Hanen would classify as Late Talkers and gave practical ideas about the types of words to choose for targets.
• Reading beautiful books which aren’t about speech therapy. I received Erin Boyle’s book Simple Matters in the post this week. The gorgeous photography and inspiring ideas were just what I needed to get out of my winter funk. And I’m sure there are principles I can apply to therapy, for example I’ll definitely think twice about buying more plastic toys, or resources. I also had another look through Joel Henriques’ book Made to Play. Another book with gorgeous photographs and the craft projects range for simple to pretty complicated. I’m going to pick a couple and have a go.

What do you do to stay motivated through winter?

One of my goals for 2016 is to make as many therapy resources as possible. I’m trying to spend more time rummaging through the recycling box and less time browsing on Amazon. I want to keep my clients interested, so I need a variety of materials. However, I don’t want to send the message to parents that the way to keep things interesting is by buying more and more toys. I hope to do some of the crafts as part of the therapy sessions, but this one I made myself, at home.

Toilet roll Octopuses

There are lots of “tutorials” online for this project, it’s really simple. I choose it because I’d collected LOTS of toilet rolls and because one of my clients is interested in facial expressions and another, sea creatures.

Here are my finished octopuses!

I enjoyed getting out my paints and making these. I put a paperclip on each one and we caught them with a magnetic fishing rod. The kids loved them. I’m not sure how sturdy they are, but they all currently still have 8 legs attached, so fingers crossed.